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Coffeeshop Ramblings
Captain of our own ship
“So when’s the wedding?” Sufian asked.
“Whoa. Slow down, dude. We barely know each other. Besides, it's just too early.” I almost choked on my coffee.
“Yup, sure thing. But a word of advice buddy. Move fast or the ship will sail.”
“What are you, a relationship guru now?”
Sufian let out a smile and we sat there, sipping our beverage in the small coffee shop just across my neighborhood. The place reeked of burnt coffee and stale furniture which he declares a fitting abode for night owls and the moonlighters.
And I set myself dazed and strung with my thoughts on what makes a good relationship.
Don’t enter a relationship just because everyone is in it
It occurs to me that when you go out there and think that that you have to find a spouse, you will indirectly act from a point of neediness.